The human being loves .... but also desperately needs to be appreciated, loved, adored ... by all the humans met in life.

And ... when someone have a contradictory attitude towards us ... all suddenly becomes ... a drama.

I see that at kids ... but also at adults ... both men and women.

... especially women.

Most probably that's why dating apps are so powerful today.... cause is solving for us a tremendous need for seeing people how they chase for connecting to us.

Unfortunately all is illusory .... cause the real truth is that everyone connects with everyone... and that idea of being special for real ... it's just a childish lie.

But i also see lots of women ... on the stage real life ... adoring to be adored.

I smile ... and try to understand them.

Most probably ... no matter how much i should try ... i can't really find a good explanation.

 

 

And ... i continue analysing them.

Unfortunately ... impolitely ... i've defined them as whores or ... easy women.

I saw their men ... trying to understand them ... but also accept that inappropriate behaviour.

I was looking deeply at some of those stories ... and could not believe where these men had such a strong power.

See their women ... adoring to be wanted by all the men from the stage of their lives.

... all happening in front of the partner ... who was watching all as an idiot ... not really believing that something like that could happen.

Most probably ... this profile of man loves so, so much that type of woman addicted of other's men attention ... that can continuously lie himself on and on and on ... hoping of a better tomorrow.

His friends... pretend that they don't see all what is going on ... and not have the power to tell him the real truth.

It will ... just hurt too much ... and allow him continue to live into the illusion.

Somehow ... hoping that one day he will just ... realise the truth.

... that nothing will even change.

Cause ... adoring to be adored ... it's an psychological games ... and no matter what .... the woman will always balance between that man .... which maybe she loves ... and all those other men ... who adore her.

Fortunately ... God designed as any story to have a beginning ... the story itself ... and an end.

 

And ... most probably... even the most idiot partner from the world ... understands one day that the addiction of being adored is stronger that copyright ... so there is no sense to keep hoping of any future improvement ... enduring the humiliation in continuous form.

 

 

 

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